Grace is gone

was watching this over breakfast at medan abt 2 days ago. didn't know the title, but found out later on lah. didn't get to watch the whole thing, but i can tell its a good movie.

one part of the film made me realize something: that after people leave, the one thing that their loved ones would miss the most is hearing their voice.

there was this part where the father didn't know what to do with his two girls, and so he calls home while on a roadtrip. Obviously no one was at home, so the answering machine told him to leave a message. But, that automated voice that greeted him was that of his late wife. and he went like "i just called because i missed hearing your voice.."

gosh. i get emo when things that i really care about gets taken away. and i think i would be one who'll prolly lose the will to live if my partner ever leaves before me. or that man who cried like a baby at his wife's funeral. but yeah, i'll just leave thoughts as they are lah.

anyway, on a not so morbid note, its like the season of departures now. not that i'm emo about it, but rather i just realize the loss now. people that you got so used to seeing and hanging out together, are now a thousands of miles away. man, they are so irreplaceable!? despite the many friends you have around you, its just different without them. i guess thats why all my friends are such a huge part of me. =/ yes, i do feel the tug when you guys leave left.

but yeah, facebook makes life better. and that song 'never alone' too.